Wednesday, October 17, 2007

thoughts on a great book: The Introvert Advantage

I was recently thinking about two very interesting scientific discoveries told about in The Introvert Advantage by Marti Olson Laney, Psy.D. The main one was about the path that thoughts and ideas go through in the brain. For some people, the idea passes through several places along a pathway in the brain until is processed completely, then can optionally be expressed in spoken words. For other people, the thought goes through one place, then has to be spoken before it can continue onto the other places on the path that allow it to get fully processed. The author admits that overlap does occur and that each type can process things like the other, but this is the general rule. Needless to say, those who usually have to finish processing a thought before they can say it are usually introverts (often quiet people), and those who usually have to express the idea before they can finish processing it are extroverts (talkative people).
Yes, I am an introvert. I usually don't like saying something until I've thought about it first and am pretty sure of what I'm talking about. And all my life I've heard about all of the disadvantages of being introverted. For one, processing when others are speaking can make a person appear slow or as if they aren't thinking:-(. And sometimes introverts (like me) tend to not even give their opinions until asked. I think introverts aren't slow at all, and have a lot of processing and evaluation going on in their brains when they aren't speaking, and here is a book to prove it:-). Haha! Another problem is that when one doesn't talk right away, the conversation moves on, and the introvert unintentionally misses an opportunity to connect with other people, cause words seem to have a way of doing that. Worse yet, people's imaginations can run wild when someone isn't talking as much as everyone else. Yes, I've been suspected of all kinds of negative thoughts when all I was thinking was, "What an interesting conversation!" or "I really like these people!" :-)
Then, what is the advantage of being introverted? One idea of the advantage is the other part of this book that I was thinking about. That part is very flattering to introverts. In fact, the author explains that some people were created as introverts so that they could advise extroverts :-). While introverts are busy talking, introverts are busy thinking, putting things together, and coming up with great ideas. She even thinks that this is the reason that there are fewer introverts than extroverts. If everyone were thinking, nothing would get done, but if everyone were doing and talking before they process, disaster! Yes, this is very flattering, but I think there is some truth in it.

Saturday, October 13, 2007

Baby Frog




I was working at my laptop last week when I saw a baby frog hopping by. We had fun taking pictures and watching the frog discover another baby frog in the mirror:-).

Friday, October 12, 2007

No Indian Race?

On the world news last night, the (white) newscaster said, "...but America has it's own massacre to deal with. There is NO INDIAN RACE LEFT."

I wonder if that is a lie or simply misinformation. There are THOUSANDS of Native American Indians in the US (and also many in Canada.). It is true that some settlers fought them and even killed some (that is very shameful), and others tried hard to do things without killing (no, it wasn't nice to put them on reservations). I've known several full-blooded Native American Indians personally, as well as some who were mixed. My mom even lived on an Indian reservation once, and ate things such as frog eye soup. My Grandma said that it's possible that one of my ancestors was a Native American, too. Saying that there is no Indian race left is as ridiculous as saying that there are no Aborigines left in Australia.

Besides, no one can say that I massacred any Indians through my ancestors cause my ancestors didn't arrive in the US till after that time:), and if they had, they might have been with the ones who didn't massacre them. And if they had, one massacre wouldn't justify the one on the news.

When I was in Italy, one of the Americans serving there was part Native American. When she told one of the older Italians that, he couldn't believe it cause he thought that the Native Americans had all been killed a long time ago and there were none left. We were surprised and politely insisted that she really is Native American, and that there are many Native American Indians. Then when I heard the news person say that, I thought there must be some misinformation going around somewhere.

Thursday, October 11, 2007

Saturday, September 29, 2007

Tagged!

These are the rules for this tagging thing, which I'm supposed to post as well:We have to post these rules before we give you the facts.Players start with eight random facts/habits about themselves.People who are tagged need to write on their own blog about their eight things and post these rules.At the end of your blog, you need to choose eight people to get tagged and list their names.Don’t forget to leave them a comment on their blog telling them they’re tagged, and you read their blog.I was tagged by Bob... here it goes….

1. My favorite thing to do for probably the past 7 years or more is to research nutrition and health, alternative medicine etc. I used to wonder if I were strange when I sat in a library devouring a book on dental health, nutrition and disease, or anything to do with health when I could spare a little time. Now I’m hoping to get my Ph.D. in Holistic Nutrition by a well-accredited correspondence school (CCNH) after finishing my M.A. in Applied Linguistics and earning money to pay the tuition fee. And I want to add a concentration in Herbology to that. I love herbs and pure essential oils, too (but not aromatherapy or fragrance oils cause those are synthetic).

2. I also love to read classics and books about psychology. Some of my favorite classics are A Tale of Two Cities and Oliver Twist by Charles Dickens, Dracula by Bram Stoker, Macbeth by Shakespeare, and Crime and Punishment. I used to think that the characters in classics were really odd until my Grandma pointed out that, if you observe closely, real people can be just as odd. I learn much about human nature from classics because part of the reason they became classics was because the authors knew human nature exceptionally well. I also like to read books on psychology because I learn about human nature from them, too, as long as I read them with a grain of salt cause I know not every psychological theory is true or good. I absolutely loved the books by Scott Peck, especially The Road Less Traveled and People Of the Lie, but, of course, didn’t agree with absolutely everything he said.

3. I love tea! Loose leaf tea is the best. My very favorite is Japanese green tea, but Chinese green tea is good, too. I don’t care for black tea. I once shocked some of my classmates at the Canadian Institute of Linguistics. Three of them came over to my basement suite for a dinner, movie, and a do an assignment while talking and getting distracted time, and were really surprised when I opened up both sides of one of my big cupboards and the all of the shelves were stocked with different kinds of tea from Japan, China, Greece, Argentina, Slovania, Korea etc. I don’t have as much tea around as before, but sometimes I’ll get a strong urge to look for tea. If that happens when I’m out with my husband, he’ll say, “Why do you want to look at tea? We already have a lot at home.” Specialteas.com has excellent tea. I wish it weren’t too ridiculously expensive to ship to the Philippines. I especially love their Japanese Fine Sencha! I’m glad my Dad was able to bring a pound of it over here when he came.J

4. I like to learn about other cultures and how people in them think, and how people in my own culture (including myself) think. In fact, learning about outer cultures can help me to identify the way that people in my culture think. In undergraduate school, I sat in the library reading books about American culture, and was surprised to see our normal activities described as a culture, as well as reasons behind the thinking that produces them. I’ve seen many times that when a foreigner gets the reasons wrong for what we do, they get very offended. It’s the same for me and other international students overseas. We tend to misjudge the reason that people do something because the same thing would be done for an entirely different reason in our own culture….and our thinking is so foreign to them that they probably wouldn’t know why we were offended…. And if we don’t know our own culture, we might just agree and say that our culture is bad when the reason that caused what they were offended about was good. It’s worse when you believe stereotypes, cause if you believe even the most believable of them, you can miss seeing how things really are in your own or another culture.

5. As a Biblical Studies major at Moody Bible Institute, I and four other girls, including an older lady with her granddaughter, went on a two-week study tour of Greece with our Old Testament professor. (I arrived in Italy about five weeks earlier and met them in Rome, but that’s beside the point.) Now, because many of the beaches in Greece are nude beaches, our professor took care to read his travel guide before choosing a campsite beside a beach. When we got to Mykonos, we reserved a place at a campsite by a “family” beach for two nights, and were warmly welcomed by the staff when we arrived. Then our professor went to take a nap, and the five of us decided to go to the beach. At the beach, we noticed that people kept staring at us more than usual, and were shy to look back at them. When we had walked about half-way across, it suddenly dawned on us that all of the people basking in the sun were completely naked:-(! Being already in the middle of the nude people, we decided to keep going until we got to the deserted part at the end (past the gay part) and enjoyed sitting on the beach and swimming, then found a different route back to the campsite. We determined that the people must have been staring at us cause we were all fully clothed, and they were waiting for us to strip:-). We had a good laugh about the Old Testament professor who took some of his Bible school students to a nude beach:-).

6. I eat and enjoy most things (not pork or raw liver). I liked the raw eggs (even in cold broth) that we ate in Japan and the cooked Balut we eat in the Philippines. I enjoy eating raw fish, seaweed, santols, liver, intestines, and even the blood soup with organ meat tasted okay (but I don’t usually eat it cause I'm not a vampire:-)). But I’m not sure how I would do eating bugs. One of my classmates at CanIL who grew up in another country told stories about how they would go out and pick up grubs and stuff and eat them raw, and he really enjoyed them. Fortunately, bug eating isn’t that common in the Philippines, and they always cook them first.

7. Almost six months ago, I got married to the cutest, most handsome Filipino with huge eyes and a nose that looks like it could belong to a puppy dog:-). For those who say it’s hard to be married to a foreigner, I don’t think we have any more problems than people who are both from the same culture, though occasionally we’ll have a misunderstanding because of cultural differences. I think the real difficulties arise when one or both of the spouses are not willing to share their feelings or explain the real reason they are upset (and it was often not at all obvious to me why my husband was upset). Since Bob and I have always been able to talk about things honestly, we understand each other better than even six months ago, and have fewer misunderstandings and disagreements now cause we understand each other’s feelings and actions better than we did at first.

8. I used to have a garden, and, along with the normal vegetables, liked to plant unusual things in it when I could find them. I planted blue corn one summer, and it really came out purple. Now I miss my garden. I suggested to Bob that we could have a garden when we go to the province, and he just about died laughing. He said he couldn’t imagine a white person working in a garden. Then he said that if it’s really small, it wouldn’t be too funny. I was really confused cause it’s common to have a garden where I’m from, and some have very large gardens and just give away the extra veggies. It’s true they usually don’t till the soil by hand like they might in the village, but everything else is done by hand….

Monday, September 24, 2007

Mapayao


this is on the way to Mapayao
we stopped in Mapayao before going onto Ob-Obi, Mapayao. We stayed in Ob-Obi that night and attended the wedding the next day.
guavas in a basket in Mapayao
"Hello!"

The Cracker, Cookie, and Peanut Butter Eating Cat In the Village Of Mapayao




although this cookie was very hard, the cat ate it and wanted more!

the cat gobbled up the peanut butter!

Thursday, September 20, 2007

Traditional Kalanguya Music and Dance

Lee and Meriam's Wedding In Ob-obi, Mapayao, a Kalanguya village

Lee is the brother of one of Bob's nieces (actually, second cousin, but second cousins count as nieces in his culture.) The bride and groom are both from the same village where the wedding was held.

-me with one of my husband's older sisters at the wedding reception

-the inside part of the reception

-the line to the food outside at the reception

-men preparing meat

-a traditional dance at the reception-This is a tradition at Kalanguya weddings. B and I also had traditional Kalanguya music and dancing after our reception meal, but many left after eating and didn't attend.

-the bride and groom seated where they could watch the traditional dances at the reception

This is just before we left after the wedding in Ob-obi, Mapayao.

Here I am in the Jeepney going down the mountain from the wedding.
A bunch of the wedding guests piled into and onto a Jeepney after the reception. It was starting to rain, and the road was very slippery and had huge ruts in it from other vehicles plowing through the mud up and down the mountain. At times, the Jeepney rocked back and forth so far that I was afraid that if it were to rock just a little bit more, we would all fall down the side of the mountain. I think that people who love roller coaster rides would have enjoyed it. But as for me, I think it gave my heart trouble (cause of my heart defect) cause it wasn't feeling well after that .

Wednesday, September 05, 2007

A Great Book

The book I'm reading in this picture is And The Word Came With Power by Joanne Shetler (click on the post title above for a link). I read this book when I was an undergraduate cause it was in my school library, but I didn't know that one of the people mentioned in it would later be one of my classmates.

It's about how Joanne went to a N. Philippine tribe as a Bible translator, and God's Word came with power. It came with power because the people were in bondage to many evil spirits. Through God's word, they were able to be freed from these spirits and the constant sacrifices they required.

Grammar Writing Class




NPMTTA People Sing At an SIL Event

The Northern Philippine Mother Tongue Translators (NPMTTA) who are currently studying in Manila were invited to sing at an SIL going away party for the area director (I think) and welcoming of the new one (I think). I came along and did the powerpoint that was shown while they were singing. They did a great job of singing in each of their mother tongues.

About the ceremony, I don't know a lot of what happened because they put us (the NPMTTA singing group) as well as the Indonesian singing group, into a small, very cold room with two tables, far from the main room where only the very highest ranking SIL people and several dignitaries sat. Oh, there were a few TAP people, too.

We were surprised that even SIL people who had high positions weren't there, but only those with very high positions in the organization.

One of the guests was the ambassador of Indonesia. He was more then an hour late, thereby causing everyone to have to wait for an extra hour (many had already come at least an hour early) before the ceremony began and we could eat:-(.

Anyway, we ended up being glad that we were in a separate room:-). Those in the big room said that they couldn't enjoy their food because they had to be very careful about their table manners. We, on the other hand, didn't have to worry about being overly proper. I sat there and enjoyed stabbing almost all of my vegetables with my fork:-)!

Oh, and this was in a large hotel in Manila, in case you were wondering. (I put a link in the title to the pictures that an NPMTTA person posted:-).)

Tuesday, September 04, 2007

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Bob's Mother

This picture of Bob's mother was taken probably in the 1960's. She passed away several years ago.

Thursday, August 23, 2007

Translators' Meeting

I went to half of one day of the two-day meeting at an SIL center in Manila for Northern Philippine Mother Tongue Translators and TAP (other tongue translators from Manila and the lowlands in the Philippines) members. Most of the NPMTTA members were there, but only a few TAP people. Some of the SIL missionaries taught. We learned how to plan how to make an event, such as a translation workshop, and discussed some other things. I also checked out some books from the SIL library:-)

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Great Kalanguya Words

I don't know of an English equivalent for many of these words. I hope my definitions are adequate:).

obi ‘sweet potato’

ob.obi ‘shy to offer the food because it is too simple’

geb.geb ‘The food was too little to be satisfying.’

mak.mak ‘To eat much without manners by shoveling in large mouthfuls.’

kam.kam ‘scattered wood (sometimes other objects)’

ta.-im ‘Your poop.’ Used as a strong expression of disgust (similar to F---).’

em.-em ‘to prepare the logs needed to build the beams of a house’

bal.bal ‘to strike a stick repeatedly until the whole stick is frayed’

hu.weng ‘to put your hand into something covered (a hole, etc.)’

lit.lit.ten ‘to chase a person or an animal until he/she/it has no place to go’

ne.nem.nem.an ‘anyone (especially a child), who exhibits wisdom’

nem.nem.nem.men ‘to remember or bear in mind a lesson learned from experience’

ngih.ngih ‘to show one’s teeth’

pan.nem.nem.nem.man ‘a period of time to think about something’

kemkem ‘to blink (naturally)’

ka.ki.kem.kem.ma ‘s/he closed his/her eyes for a reason while awake’

kem.kem.ki.men ‘a child sitting and blinking his/her eyes after being rebuked (which causes the parent to become angry)’

a.-a.law ‘to move a little’

eb.-eb ‘when a chicken tries to hatch her eggs’

ne.ba-.kol ‘old woman’

ne.-a.me ‘old man’

Monday, August 13, 2007

Acts 17:26-27 (English Standard Version)

And he made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place, that they should seek God, in the hope that they might feel their way toward him and find him. Yet he is actually not far from each one of us, for, “ ‘In him we live and move and have our being’; as even some of your own poets have said, “ ‘For we are indeed his offspring.’
This is the church we've been attending. Some other students went at the same time as us this Sunday, as you can see. It's all in English. I love the preaching. It always challenges me to grow in my spiritual life. I think the pastor is dedicated to speaking truth (in love, not to condemm) rather than trying not to ruffle feathers.

on a new overpass in Metro Manila